Raising children is becoming more difficult day by day. Because of the busy life of the parents. Where they do not have enough time for their children.
But on the contrary, the extra care and rigor of the parents often make them mentally weak. So let's find out what things parents should keep in mind.
Extra encouraged competition
Your child is poor in reading or has low marks in any particular subject. But as a parent, if you force him to enroll in a certain stream or scare him into competing, compare him to the rest of the kids.
In such a situation, the child develops negative feelings towards himself. He feels that he is not really capable.
In such a situation the child may suffer from stress and depression. She will lose her self-confidence and she will also become weak in her favorite subject.
Some parents give their children extra protection. As a result, he is dependent on his parents for every little thing.
In such a situation his confidence decreases. He thinks he can't do anything without the help of his parents.
Such children feel unable to solve even minor problems later in life. So they need to be made self-reliant.
Control more than necessary
Many parents have extra control over their children. It intimidates children as well as imposes conditions.
There is a provision of punishment for breaking every rule. Which is strictly enforced.
In such a situation the child is scared or cannot build the self-confidence to do anything. He has difficulty doing anything and is afraid of punishment.
Not understanding feelings
When a child wants to say something to his parents or express his feelings. So he was reprimanded. Otherwise, his words are proved wrong.
It is important to understand your child's feelings before making any conclusions. For this, we have to listen to him first. Only then can you understand his inner feelings.